BE sOmE oNe

Let me be yours... Someone to hold you tight, someone to make you feel alright everyday and night I wish I was your someone.

Someone to hold you when you're weak, someone to make you feel complete, everyday and nigh , I wish I was your someone.

You might wonder that I am single,why I raise up this topic to say in my blog. However I'm not yet married but I have some experiences from my couple friends who always consult for advises from me and by nature understanding from social communications. I am not saying that I am an expert one but I could share some idea I have found.
Being in married lives is a big change from single lives. More responsibilities and duties you are going to take respond. Being a good wife does not really mean that you have to be beautiful, rich, good at house work or cooking but it include your respond and commitment with reasonable and understandable to live with the one you love. Mate lives is too far different from boyfriend or girl friend.

Are you sure that you are potential enough to be a good wife? How much you find out your partner's needs? Are you patient enough to forget and forgive? Are you commitment to face the difficulties with him?
Some people found that husband and wife married for sex, earning money and children.
But that is not completed a good looking family. Living together as a family, you need to understand what each other needs and like.

Be a close friend:You are the close one who can comfort him to be please, Open minded to let him talk to, Free your shoulder to let him lie on and talk out what he is stress with, hold him and encourage him.

Be a girl friend: Men need a girl who is understandable and forgivable but for only him. Be nice and fun is a main key to lock his heart then make it open so you can learn what is inside him.

Kind and honest: Honesty is the most important that make your life full of happiness. You cannot exspect your husband to be honest only you if you have no strategy to fulfill what is needs. Kind is what you are you must show not only him also his family, parents, or others he close too. This is how you built your relationship to make him respect.

Show your ability and beauty: Be smart to slove the problem ( Becareful Your sweet words will make him release all exhusting and stress so whenever must be sweet to comfort him ). Husband constandly value wife with her capacity. in house or out house,dont mind yourself. Even the you talk,joke and truth must be clear. please study more how to keep your beauty young and look nice or sexy to take on the interest from your husband. Bettter have enough time to take care your health and your beauty.

Reasonable and understandable: Be reasonable and open mind to listen to all the problem.
Be more flexible and creative to be your own self then he will trust that you are a lady with commitment and ability. Sometime you must save your husband's face cos this is the men's value.
You must not say anything bed infront of other about your husband at all.

Trust and confident: All the time of married leaves, Confidence and and patience are your daily respond. Do not be like kids and do not be talkative or try to repeat your husband's mistakes many many times. He is not a kid,one time talking is enough.

Romance and Sweet: This focus on Daily life with sex and romance time between both of you. Make sure that you can conrol your romance time and understand how to make your love's life be sweet and not boring.

Clever and Smart: Nature of the men is having fun out side. Be open to him but make him respect you. Be ignore sometime and better strick sometime. Remember Men dont like women who always bee and follow up.He need freedom but you must be wisdom as well. Fulfill what he needs then he will never ever spend his life without you. Your kindness with remind him. Sometimes your husband would like to taste something new out side but you have to be patience and keep yourself on top, girls can't compare with wife.

Be a mother with high responsibilities: Taking care the chilld and husband, out door work and housework are equally treated. You know the enviroment in house will attract your husband feeling fresh and smart, create a romance time in your home with your family.Thus, decor and make up it nice and clean. Your husband will proud of having you in his long life time forever.